Thursday, April 30, 2020
Mastery: How to Learn Anything Fast | Nishant Kasibhatla
1. Learning means nothing if you don't implement it
2. Deep learning = learning something and using the knowledge in some way to better your self.
3. Shallow learning = only being focused on the Input of knowledge. It is simply intellectual entertainment.
4. Deep learning is > shallow learning
5. How to implement knowledge? Spend twice the time (2x) executing & sharing your knowledge as you would take to learn something
6. Always do a Takeaway :)
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Wednesday, April 29, 2020
How To Reset Your Mind: Dopamine Detox
In this video, I talk about how to reset your mind with a dopamine detox. In the brain, dopamine functions as a neurotransmitter. It affects many aspects of your behavior, some of which include learning, motivation, and mood.
When dopamine levels are too low, people experience depression, anxiety and overwhelm. If you are someone who struggles with mental health issues, the good news is that you don't have to suffer anymore.
Ready to discover the solution for how to reset your mind and feel better?
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Tuesday, April 28, 2020
How to motivate yourself to change your behavior | Tali Sharot | TEDxCam...
What does make us change our actions? Tali Sharot reveals three ingredients to doing what's good for yourself.
Dr. Tali Sharot is a neuroscientist at University College London and the director of the Affective Brain Lab. She is a faculty member of the department of Experimental Psychology, a Wellcome Trust Fellow, and currently a visiting Professor at Harvard Medical School. Her research focuses on how emotion, motivation, and social factors influence our expectations, decisions, and memories.
She talks about motivation.
1. Social incentive- we are motivated through the positive actions of others. Ex. If we see our friend post a picture of themself at the gym then we want to do the same.
2. Progress monitoring- We are motivated by seeing progress. Ex. If we start working out too and we see progress by weighing ourself then that helps motivate us to continue.
3. Immediate Reward- reward your good behavior. Ex. If i workout this whole week then I will treat myself over the weekend. Maybe some pizza or ice cream
Dr. Tali Sharot is a neuroscientist at University College London and the director of the Affective Brain Lab. She is a faculty member of the department of Experimental Psychology, a Wellcome Trust Fellow, and currently a visiting Professor at Harvard Medical School. Her research focuses on how emotion, motivation, and social factors influence our expectations, decisions, and memories.
She talks about motivation.
1. Social incentive- we are motivated through the positive actions of others. Ex. If we see our friend post a picture of themself at the gym then we want to do the same.
2. Progress monitoring- We are motivated by seeing progress. Ex. If we start working out too and we see progress by weighing ourself then that helps motivate us to continue.
3. Immediate Reward- reward your good behavior. Ex. If i workout this whole week then I will treat myself over the weekend. Maybe some pizza or ice cream
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Monday, April 27, 2020
After watching this, your brain will not be the same | Lara Boyd | TEDxV...
In a classic research-based TEDx Talk, Dr. Lara Boyd describes how neuroplasticity gives you the power to shape the brain you want. Recorded at TEDxVancouver at Rogers Arena on November 14, 2015.
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Our knowledge of the brain is evolving at a breathtaking pace, and Dr. Lara Boyd is positioned at the cutting edge of these discoveries. In 2006, she was recruited by the University of British Columbia to become the Canada Research Chair in Neurobiology and Motor Learning. Since that time she has established the Brain Behaviour Lab, recruited and trained over 40 graduate students, published more than 80 papers and been awarded over $5 million in funding.
Dr. Boyd’s efforts are leading to the development of novel, and more effective, therapeutics for individuals with brain damage, but they are also shedding light on broader applications. By learning new concepts, taking advantage of opportunities, and participating in new activities, you are physically changing who you are, and opening up a world of endless possibility.
Sunday, April 26, 2020
The art of being yourself | Caroline McHugh | TEDxMiltonKeynesWomen
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Saturday, April 25, 2020
How to stop screwing yourself over | Mel Robbins | TEDxSF
Mel Robbins is a married working mother of three, an ivy-educated criminal lawyer, and one of the top career and relationship experts in America. Widely respected for her grab-'em-by-the-collar advice and tough love, Robbins drills through the mental clutter that stands between people and what they want. Her approach is smart, effective and entertaining. Five days a week, Mel hosts her own syndicated radio show The Mel Robbins Show, discussing hot topics and giving advice to callers across America. She is starring in a new series, In-Laws, airing this summer on A&E. In addition, she writes a monthly column for Success Magazine, is a former CNBC contributor and is the co-founder of Advice for Living, Inc., which develops products and television programming with experts in the wellness, health, relationship and career categories.
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Friday, April 24, 2020
The person you really need to marry | Tracy McMillan | TEDxOlympicBlvdWomen
Life doesn't give you what you ask for. It gives you the people, places and situations that will help you develop what you've asked for.
Thursday, April 23, 2020
The secret to self control | Jonathan Bricker | TEDxRainier
Jonathan Bricker's work has uncovered a scientifically sound approach to behavior change that is twice as effective as most currently practiced methods. His new methods are driving new norms and new apps for how people quit smoking and decrease obesity, saving many people from an early death.
Jonathan Bricker is an internationally recognized scientific leader in a bold approach called acceptance and commitment therapy. A Stanford researcher called his use of the approach “a breakthrough in behavioral research [that] has major public health implications for the major causes of preventable death.” Bricker and his team, having received $10 million in total federal research grants to study this topic, are rigorously testing this intervention on multiple platforms, including smartphone apps, websites, and telephone coaching. His SmartQuit app for quitting smoking was recently launched and is now in distribution worldwide.
Summary
1) Be aware of the cravings whenever they appear, detect them and think "I'm feeling I'm having a craving for X."
2) Don't fight it. Let the craving rest in your brain and be conscious of it
3) Instead of shaming yourself for giving in to a craving, tell to yourself what you'd say to a friend of yours who's had a slip up.
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Wednesday, April 22, 2020
10 Mind Tricks to Learn Anything Fast!
Summary
1. 0:16 The Sleep Sandwich. (Study-Sleep-Study because while we are asleep our subconscious brain works to get information into the long-term memory.)
2. 2:13 Mastery through modification. (Do not fool yourself into thinking as being competent, try to modify which will eventually lead you to identify your weaknesses.)
3. 3:40 Weaving Subjects. (Interweaving different subjects and styles and subjects helps to solidify information.)
4. 4:26 Chewing Gum. (Decreases stress, Improves concentration, enough said.)
5. 5:01 Intellectual Hydration. (Hydration improves our Brain function.)
6. 7:23 Multiple Mediums. (Blend different mediums, flashcards, diagrams, mind-map, etc.)
7. 8:08 Speed Read. (coz information is doubling every year.)
8. 8:55 Musical Stress Relief. (Do I need to say anything here.)
9. 9:50 Practice in Pieces. (Spaced Repetition helps retain information, see: Ebbinghaus-Forgetting Curve.)
10. 10:38 The Hard Road. (No Shortcuts, Self-Written Notes are always easy to retain.)
Tuesday, April 21, 2020
Elon Musk: How To Achieve 10x More Than Your Peers
1. Clarify your values
2. Imagine an amazing future
3. Persevere and fail a whole bunch
Monday, April 20, 2020
How to quickly get out of a rut
Summary
1. Do something (1:53)
2. Reward yourself for small wins (3:55)
3. Work on progressive overload (5:55)
Sunday, April 19, 2020
15 Steps To Master Self-Discipline
Summary
1) Define a goal worth fighting for 2:38
2) Deconstruct the goal 5:10
3) Make a daily plan that if followed will get you to your goal 7:00
4) Remove temptations or distractions 8:31
5) Prioritize the goal before anything else 9:49
6) Don't wait for it to feel right 10:59
7) Force yourself to do it 12:27
8) Find role-models who inspire you 13:53
9) Schedule breaks, treats & rewards for yourself 15:13
10) Failure - Even for one day - is not an option 16:33
11) Keep track of your progress 18:12
12) Set monthly milestones 19:20
13) Self-analyse your progress (even is written "process: :D) 21:07
14) Remove negative habits 22:34
15) Just keep pushing for 50 days straight 24:14
Friday, April 17, 2020
How To Meditate For Beginners - A Definitive Guide
Here's an easy to follow guide that covers exactly how to meditate for beginners. In this comprehensive guide we will cover exactly: where to meditate, how to meditate, what to do with your mind, how long to do it for, and even how long before you start seeing benefits.
Thursday, April 16, 2020
Epictetus - LIFE CHANGING Quotes - STOICISM
Epictetus was a Greek Stoic philosopher. Whats incredible is that He was born a Slave. He lived in Rome until he was banishment, when he then went to Greece for the rest of his life. His teachings were written down and published by his pupil Arrian in his Discourses and Enchiridion.
Wednesday, April 15, 2020
The first 20 hours -- how to learn anything | Josh Kaufman | TEDxCSU
Josh Kaufman is the author of the #1 international bestseller, 'The Personal MBA: Master the Art of Business', as well as the upcoming book 'The First 20 Hours: Mastering the Toughest Part of Learning Anything.' Josh specializes in teaching people from all walks of life how to master practical knowledge and skills. In his talk, he shares how having his first child inspired him to approach learning in a whole new way.
Summary
1. Deconstruct the skill.
2. Learn enough to self-correct.
3. Remove practice barriers.
4. Practice at least 20 hours
Summary
1. Deconstruct the skill.
2. Learn enough to self-correct.
3. Remove practice barriers.
4. Practice at least 20 hours
Tuesday, April 14, 2020
Learn How To Control Your Mind (USE This To BrainWash Yourself)
Monday, April 13, 2020
Hooked, Hacked, Hijacked: Reclaim Your Brain from Addictive Living: Dr. ...
Dr. Pamela Peeke is an internationally renowned physician, scientist and expert in the fields of nutrition, metabolism, stress and fitness. Triathlete and marathoner, Dr. Peeke is nationally known as the "doc who walks the talk" inspiring through example. Dr. Peeke is the lifestyle expert for WebMD's 90 million members, and a regular blogger on cutting edge science in health and wellness. Presently, Dr. Peeke is Senior Science Advisor to Elements Behavioral Health, the nation's most preeminent network of eating disorders and addiction centers. Her current research focuses on how addictive behaviors have subtly and often profoundly penetrated daily lifestyle habits
Sunday, April 12, 2020
THIS is the FIRST Thing I BOUGHT With My MONEY! | Zlatan Ibrahimovic | T...
Grab a snack and chew on today's lessons from a man who went from growing up poor in a ghetto, almost quitting his football career when he was 15 in favor of working at the docks in Malmo, to becoming one of the best strikers in the game, and one of the best football players ever! He's Zlatan Ibrahimovic and see Evan's take on his Top 10 Rules for Success Volume 2!
Summary
1. Be confident
2. Don't chase money
3. Give people what they want
4. Make no excuses
5. Grow from difficulties
6. Just be yourself
7. Don't compare to others
8. Be a conqueror
9. Prove them wrong
10. Live on the edge
Summary
1. Be confident
2. Don't chase money
3. Give people what they want
4. Make no excuses
5. Grow from difficulties
6. Just be yourself
7. Don't compare to others
8. Be a conqueror
9. Prove them wrong
10. Live on the edge
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Saturday, April 11, 2020
Friday, April 10, 2020
This Harvard Professor Explains the Secret to Aging in Reverse | David S...
Harvard professor David Sinclair believes that not only can we slow aging down, we can actually reverse it. On this episode of Health Theory with Tom Bilyeu, David Sinclair explains the three levels of aging, and what can be done on each level. He describes the lifestyle changes that slow aging down, the drug treatments that begin to stop aging, and experimental new procedures that may actually reverse aging once they are fully developed.
Summary1
David describes the way that cell stress causes aging [5:20]
David explains what proteins are and how they work [6:40]
David recommends lifestyle changes to slow down or reverse aging [9:14]
David recommends stressing the system by consistent fasting [10:52]
David explains why we don’t live as long as whales [15:01]
David describes resetting the biological clock [16:16]
David explains how to tell when someone is going to die [18:47]
David explains why people are taking metformin [20:03]
David shares his regimen of exercise and metformin [24:18]
David advocates cold exposure [25:28]
David explains work he’s done to try to reset the aging clock [29:01]
David explains why you don’t want to turn the cellular clock back too far [31:37]
David describes the actual process of reversing aging in masses of cells [33:20]
David talks about some results with mice that appear to reverse aging [36:40]
David shares his father’s story of metformin and NMN use [38:10]
David explains the effects of resveratrol [39:07]
David describes the kinds of testing he advocates [43:13]
David shares the impact he wants to have on the world [45:44]
Summary2
1. Exercise (at least 1 hour per day, five days a week; weight lifting is essential)
2. Yoga (30 minutes every morning)
3. Eat clean (consume organic – very important)
4. Diet (reduce meat and increase veg)
5. Stay hungry!
6. Cut carbs to a minimum
7. No sugar at all
8. Monday & Thursday fasting (only fruits and fruit juices)
9. Drink at least 3 litres of clean water (1 litre immediately after you are awake)
10. Sleep (8 hours minimum; Recommendation - 9pm - 6am)
11. Take cold shower
12. Reduce artificial heating and expose yourself in cold weather
13. Use sauna and steam room (Listen, if you are a man, better do this only after you become the father of a child because too much exposure to sauna/steam room/Jacuzzi/hot tub reduces your sperm health)
14. Laugh as much as you can
15. Embrace nature and your true self (go for long aimless walks in the bush, beaches etc. to sense the beauty of nature and to recognise that you are a tiny part of the singularity)
16. Do not keep hatred because it will consume you. Forgive and move on.
Summary1
David describes the way that cell stress causes aging [5:20]
David explains what proteins are and how they work [6:40]
David recommends lifestyle changes to slow down or reverse aging [9:14]
David recommends stressing the system by consistent fasting [10:52]
David explains why we don’t live as long as whales [15:01]
David describes resetting the biological clock [16:16]
David explains how to tell when someone is going to die [18:47]
David explains why people are taking metformin [20:03]
David shares his regimen of exercise and metformin [24:18]
David advocates cold exposure [25:28]
David explains work he’s done to try to reset the aging clock [29:01]
David explains why you don’t want to turn the cellular clock back too far [31:37]
David describes the actual process of reversing aging in masses of cells [33:20]
David talks about some results with mice that appear to reverse aging [36:40]
David shares his father’s story of metformin and NMN use [38:10]
David explains the effects of resveratrol [39:07]
David describes the kinds of testing he advocates [43:13]
David shares the impact he wants to have on the world [45:44]
Summary2
1. Exercise (at least 1 hour per day, five days a week; weight lifting is essential)
2. Yoga (30 minutes every morning)
3. Eat clean (consume organic – very important)
4. Diet (reduce meat and increase veg)
5. Stay hungry!
6. Cut carbs to a minimum
7. No sugar at all
8. Monday & Thursday fasting (only fruits and fruit juices)
9. Drink at least 3 litres of clean water (1 litre immediately after you are awake)
10. Sleep (8 hours minimum; Recommendation - 9pm - 6am)
11. Take cold shower
12. Reduce artificial heating and expose yourself in cold weather
13. Use sauna and steam room (Listen, if you are a man, better do this only after you become the father of a child because too much exposure to sauna/steam room/Jacuzzi/hot tub reduces your sperm health)
14. Laugh as much as you can
15. Embrace nature and your true self (go for long aimless walks in the bush, beaches etc. to sense the beauty of nature and to recognise that you are a tiny part of the singularity)
16. Do not keep hatred because it will consume you. Forgive and move on.
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Thursday, April 9, 2020
Ho'oponopono: The Hawaiian Forgiveness Ritual as the Key to Your Life's Fulfillment
What is Ho'oponopono
Have you heard of the Hawaiian therapist who cured an entire ward of criminally insane patients?
The therapist was Dr Ihaleakala Hew Len and he used Ho'oponopono to do it.
Ho'oponopono is a hawaiian practice of reconciliation and forgiveness. It translates into english simply as correction.
The secret is there is no such thing as “out there” – everything happens to you in your mind. Everything you see, everything you hear, every person you meet, you experience in your mind. You only think it’s “out there” and you think that absolves you of responsibility.
In fact it’s quite the opposite: you are responsible for everything you think, and everything that comes to your attention. If you watch the news, everything you hear on the news is your responsibility. That sounds harsh, but it means that you are also able to clear it, clean it, and through forgiveness change it.
Dr Len's had an idea of 100% responsibility. If one would take complete responsibility for one's life, then everything one sees, hears, tastes, touches, or in any way experiences would be one's responsibility because it is in one's life..The problem would not be with our external reality, it would be with ourselves. Total Responsibility, according to Hew Len, advocates that everything exists as a projection from inside the human being.
So how can I use Ho'oponopono
The main objective of HoĘ»oponopono is getting to the "zero state — it's where we have zero limits.
"To reach this state (which Dr Len called 'SITH - Self-I-Dentity through Ho'oponopono') you can start by repeating the following mantra:
"I love you. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you."
It is a simple four step process.
Step 1: Repentance – I’M SORRY
Say "I'm sorry".The first step is to realise you are responsible for everything in your mind, even if it seems to be outside. Once you realise this it is very natural to feel sorry for all the troubles in the world. You can start by saying sorry for something you have caused yourself e.g. addiction to alcohol or smoking or being overweight or a lack of confidence or health issues. You could also say I realize that I am responsible for the issues(s) in my life and I feel remorse that my consciousness has allowed this.
Step 2: Ask Forgiveness - PLEASE FORGIVE ME
Say "PLEASE FORGIVE ME". It doesn't matter who you are asking. Just ask! . Repeat and mean what you say and be aware of the repentance from step 1.
Step 3: Gratitude - THANK YOU
Say “THANK YOU”. It is not important to whom or for what you are thanking. Thank various things. Thank your body for all it does for you. Thank yourself for being the best you can be. Thank God./a higher power/ the universe. Thank whatever it was that just forgave you. Just keep saying THANK YOU. There is amazing power in gratitude and thanking.
Step 4: Love - I LOVE YOU
Say I LOVE YOU. Say it to your body, say it to God/a higher power/the universe.. Say I LOVE YOU to everything around you. The world , your environment, your home, the people around you, your successes and your challengers. Repeat it and mean it. Feel it.
If this reasonates with you, here are some further resources to develop your understanding of this.
Book: Ho'oponopono: the Hawaiian Forgivess Ritua as the Key to your Life's fulfilment
- Click here to see more about the book >> CLICK HERE
Certification course: from Dr. Joe Vitale (of 'the secret') and Mathew Dixon Featuring Dr. Hew Len
- If you really want to understand it or use in your coaching/ therapy practice the click here to see more about the certificication course >> CLICK HERE
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Wednesday, April 8, 2020
The Secret To Happiness - 90 DAY CHALLENGE
Have you heard of the 90 day challenge? It's a secret technique to happiness.
What do you need to start?
It's very simple , you just need
What do I have to do?
All you need to do is to write down daily, your heart's desire (e.g Relationships jobs, business,health, happiness, etc) on the post it note
What do you need to start?
It's very simple , you just need
- 1 post it /sticky note pad
- 1 pen
- 1 minute per day
What do I have to do?
All you need to do is to write down daily, your heart's desire (e.g Relationships jobs, business,health, happiness, etc) on the post it note
- Write by hand
- Write as if the thing you wish exists already in the present
- Not I wish or I could have but I have
- Not negative , state in positive
- For example:
- I have a great relationship with my wife
- I have more than enough to give to others
- I am blessed
- My finances are doing well
- I have perfect health
- I have a great relationship with my children
- On the bottom right corner of the post it note, write a number.
- Start with number 1 then next day number 2 then next day number 3 until you reach 90
- However if skip one day go back to 1. so the 90 day challenge might take you 1/2 a year.
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Tuesday, April 7, 2020
Emotional Freedom Secrets - Emotions Make Good Servants But Bad Masters
Imagine the impact on your life, if you could switch to high performance states at will.
Many of us believe that we can't control our emotions but let me ask you this.
Have you ever been feeling down and then had a call from an old friend and then felt great. Or have you felt good and heard a song that reminded you of an old love. You've immediately and instantly changed from sad to happy and happy to sad. Nothing in the external world has changed but your emotional states have been changed by triggers.
NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) Calls these triggers Anchors. The ones I mentioned are external but you can create internal ones that you can use at will to be able to change your state and emotions. It is really amazing!
Another example is to think of a really enjoyable experience, a time when you felt really good. Go into that experience and notice what you see and what you hear and re-live this memory.Notice how you feel and when you are ready return to the present. Notice the impact this has on your present state, especially your posture and breathing. Although the sights and sounds of the past are gone, the actual feeling is still very real. Whatever you were feeling before this paragraph you have now put yourself into a resourceful state.
In contrast think back to a slightly uncomfortable past experience. Imagine yourself back in that situation. What are you seeing? What can hear? How do you feel? Don't stay long and return to the present. How do you feel? Notice your state and your posture and your breathing.
Now change your state, do some exercise or move.
Some people have mastered their ability to change their state at will, creating for themselves and emotional freedom that transforms the quality of their lives. They fully experience the ups and downs of life but they learn , move on and do not dwell on emotional pain unnecessarily.
We can influence our states , rather than simply react to what happens on the outside. In the last few minutes, you have felt good, then uncomfortable, then..however you feel now. And nothing has actually happened in the outside world. You have done all this yourself.
So how can you control your states and fire these 'anchors'
1. Identify the situation where you want to be more resourceful
2. Identify the particular resource you want, e.g confidence.
3. Find an occasion in your life when you had that resource
4. Select and anchor (a trigger) you are going to use.
i) physical anchor - e.g. touch your thumb to your index finger
ii) hearing anchor - e.g. confidence
iii) visual anchor - choose a symbol or remember what you were seeing when you were
feeling confident
5. Step fully into the the experience of that resourceful state.. Relive that experience as if you are seeing it and hearing it. What can you see? What can you hear? What can you feel, taste and smell? Really get into it.
6. When it comes up to the peak , fire your 3 anchors (i.e. touch your physical anchor (eg touch your thumb to your index finger) , hear you hearing anchor ('confidence') and see your visual anchor..
7. Think of something else.
8. Repeat steps 5 to 7 a few times.
9. Identify a signal that lets you know you are in that situation where you need this resource. This will remind you when to use your anchor.
These techniques take practice and the more you practice the more you will be able to control your emotional state.
If you find this interesting and amazing , there is a great to read to find out more. It's called 'Introducing NLP 'by Joseph O'Conner and John Seymour. Click here for the link.
Many of us believe that we can't control our emotions but let me ask you this.
Have you ever been feeling down and then had a call from an old friend and then felt great. Or have you felt good and heard a song that reminded you of an old love. You've immediately and instantly changed from sad to happy and happy to sad. Nothing in the external world has changed but your emotional states have been changed by triggers.
NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) Calls these triggers Anchors. The ones I mentioned are external but you can create internal ones that you can use at will to be able to change your state and emotions. It is really amazing!
Another example is to think of a really enjoyable experience, a time when you felt really good. Go into that experience and notice what you see and what you hear and re-live this memory.Notice how you feel and when you are ready return to the present. Notice the impact this has on your present state, especially your posture and breathing. Although the sights and sounds of the past are gone, the actual feeling is still very real. Whatever you were feeling before this paragraph you have now put yourself into a resourceful state.
In contrast think back to a slightly uncomfortable past experience. Imagine yourself back in that situation. What are you seeing? What can hear? How do you feel? Don't stay long and return to the present. How do you feel? Notice your state and your posture and your breathing.
Now change your state, do some exercise or move.
Some people have mastered their ability to change their state at will, creating for themselves and emotional freedom that transforms the quality of their lives. They fully experience the ups and downs of life but they learn , move on and do not dwell on emotional pain unnecessarily.
We can influence our states , rather than simply react to what happens on the outside. In the last few minutes, you have felt good, then uncomfortable, then..however you feel now. And nothing has actually happened in the outside world. You have done all this yourself.
So how can you control your states and fire these 'anchors'
1. Identify the situation where you want to be more resourceful
2. Identify the particular resource you want, e.g confidence.
3. Find an occasion in your life when you had that resource
4. Select and anchor (a trigger) you are going to use.
i) physical anchor - e.g. touch your thumb to your index finger
ii) hearing anchor - e.g. confidence
iii) visual anchor - choose a symbol or remember what you were seeing when you were
feeling confident
5. Step fully into the the experience of that resourceful state.. Relive that experience as if you are seeing it and hearing it. What can you see? What can you hear? What can you feel, taste and smell? Really get into it.
6. When it comes up to the peak , fire your 3 anchors (i.e. touch your physical anchor (eg touch your thumb to your index finger) , hear you hearing anchor ('confidence') and see your visual anchor..
7. Think of something else.
8. Repeat steps 5 to 7 a few times.
9. Identify a signal that lets you know you are in that situation where you need this resource. This will remind you when to use your anchor.
These techniques take practice and the more you practice the more you will be able to control your emotional state.
If you find this interesting and amazing , there is a great to read to find out more. It's called 'Introducing NLP 'by Joseph O'Conner and John Seymour. Click here for the link.
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Sunday, April 5, 2020
The Secret to Health, Wealth, Relationships and Happiness
The secret on Netflix is an amazing boost of positivity and focus. I would recommend watching this - see trailer below.
The secret is the law of attraction. Everything coming into your life is to attracted to you by whatever you are thinking about.
THOUGHTS
Your life is a physical manifestation of thoughts in your head
You become whatever you think about - thoughts become things and thoughts have a frequency so think about what you want with all your focus.
If you think of what you don't want - you will attract it so it is important to think of only the things you want. Don’t focus on what you don't want, For example, don't say " I don't want to be late" or complain about how bad it is as both these will create what you don't want.
You are the masterpiece of your own life and you do it with your thoughts
FEELINGS
Feelings are a feedback mechanism of your body.
Many people just try and think good thoughts but nothing manifests in their lives. This is because they are not using their feelings.
The more that you feel good, the more you will attract the things that make you feel good so you should feel healthy, feel prosperous and feel love.
But how can you feel good if you are having a bad day or not feeling good. It's easy , just do one of the following.
3 STEP PROCESS
So how do you follow the secret. It is a simple 3 step process.
So start to change your thoughts, expectations and feelings.
Begin with making a daily list of things you are grateful for. You will then attract more of what you want.
Whatever you visualise, you materialize. Start dwelling on the end result that you want. For example close your eyes and focus on the back of your hands, see the hairs, feel the skin. Now imagine your hands are on the steering wheel of your favorite car , hear the engine, feel the speed . Imagine feeling happy, joyous and exhilarated.
Make sure you are persistent. Many people try and give up just before they reach success. As soon as you say "it doesn't work " then the universe will say "your wish is my command" so be persistent.
Don't worry about how it will happen - the universe knows the shortest quickest way.
So decide what you want , believe you can have it, deserve it and it is possible for you. Close your eyes, visualise having what you want and feel feelings of happiness and gratitude. Then release it into the universe and believe the universe will manifest it for you.
WEALTH
Declare what you want from the catalogue of the universe.
Make sure you think about what you want , not what you don't want. If you are thinking about getting out of debt, you are still thinking of being in debt and that is what you will get .
Focus on Abundance, not scarcity.
Visualise cheques coming in the mail. Visualise that money comes frequently and easily to you.
HAPPINESS
Go for inner things, inner joy then the outer things appear.
Think about things that make you feel happy and focus on these.
RELATIONSHIPS
Do you treat yourself the way you want to be treated? Make sure you treat yourself with love as you need to respect yourself before you can be in a relationship with someone else.
Love yourself ! This is not conceit but just love your amazing body and your wonderful self.
If you find yourself arguing in a relationship, get a piece of paper and write everything you appreciate about them,. Write a list daily.
HEALTH
Dis-ease means your body is not at ease. Diseases and all stress are feedback from your body that you are not balanced.
Many people have healed themselves by continuously saying "thank you for my healing" and putting themselves in a joyous state (e.g. by watching comedies and avoiding stress).
Albert Schweitzer said all healing is self healing. Your immune system heals your body.
Disease cant live in body in a healthy emotional state.
Anything we focus on we create, if we are angry - we are focusing on the anger which brings more anger.
Jung said "What you resist, persists ". Don’t be anti, be pro. Focus on what you want , not what you don’t want . .Mother Theresa understood this. She said she would never attend an anti war demo. but she would gladly come to a peace movement.
ENERGY
Energy flows where attention goes. We are all energy. Einstein's famous equation E=mc(squared) shows that energy and matter are interchangeable.
You are an energy field operating in the larger energy field of the universe. Everything is connected. You are an infinite field of unfolding psssibilites.
What are you going to do nw= when you focus on what your want the things you don’t want fall away. You are the author , the pen is your hand and the outcome is whatever you choose
Whenever you say I cant do that or she wont let me or he wont let me then every single I'm not is a creation. We are unlimited beings - we have no ceiling so don't limit yourself.
Your purpose is what you say it is. Your mission is what you say it is.
You have a future of unbounded potential, unbounded possibilities. You deserve to be happy,. You were born to add something of value to this world so be best you can be .
Every single thing that you’ve been though ,that you’ve come through has prepared you for this moment. You are the creator of your destiny. Imagine what you can do from this day forth with what you now know,. Will you seize the moment? No one else can sing your song, or dance your dance or write your story. It begins now. I believe you are great. There is something magnificent about you. No matter how old or young you think you are. You now have the power that will take over your life, direct and sustain you. That is what I know for sure.
When the voice and vision inside is more profound and louder then opinions outside you’ve mastered your life
Life should be abundant--believe it , see it, act from it and it will show up for you
What you think and feel and belief and thank about , you bring about. That is the secret.
The secret is the law of attraction. Everything coming into your life is to attracted to you by whatever you are thinking about.
THOUGHTS
Your life is a physical manifestation of thoughts in your head
You become whatever you think about - thoughts become things and thoughts have a frequency so think about what you want with all your focus.
If you think of what you don't want - you will attract it so it is important to think of only the things you want. Don’t focus on what you don't want, For example, don't say " I don't want to be late" or complain about how bad it is as both these will create what you don't want.
You are the masterpiece of your own life and you do it with your thoughts
FEELINGS
Feelings are a feedback mechanism of your body.
Many people just try and think good thoughts but nothing manifests in their lives. This is because they are not using their feelings.
The more that you feel good, the more you will attract the things that make you feel good so you should feel healthy, feel prosperous and feel love.
But how can you feel good if you are having a bad day or not feeling good. It's easy , just do one of the following.
- Listen to music,
- Sing something that uplifts you,
- Think of something beautiful ( like a baby you love) - dwell on it and use all your senses)
- Feel love for something/someone (e.g your pet)
HISTORY
The secret is not knew and has been known for thousands of years.
In the bible in Matthew 7, 7 it states : Ask, and it shall be given you
The Buddha said "All that we are is the result of what we have thought"
In the famous story of Alladin, the genie always says "Your wish is my command". In modern versions the genie grants 3 wishes but if you trace the story back you find originally it was unlimited wishes. Think about the significance of that for a moment.
Whether you believe in God, or the universe or a higher power you just need to ask and believe and act in a way as if it was true and the manifestations of your wishes will appear.
The Buddha said "All that we are is the result of what we have thought"
In the famous story of Alladin, the genie always says "Your wish is my command". In modern versions the genie grants 3 wishes but if you trace the story back you find originally it was unlimited wishes. Think about the significance of that for a moment.
Whether you believe in God, or the universe or a higher power you just need to ask and believe and act in a way as if it was true and the manifestations of your wishes will appear.
3 STEP PROCESS
So how do you follow the secret. It is a simple 3 step process.
- Ask:
- Ask for what you really want. State it in the present tense, e.g I am so happy and grateful that ....... (say what you want in the present tense as if it already is happening).
- Believe it's already yours
- You don't need to know how. The universe will rearrange itself to make it happen
- It is like a car driving in the dark. You cannot see the whole route, you can only see 50 meters ahead but you can keep going.
- If you start doubting, replace it with unwavering faith. You can do this by continually saying what you want. Your subconscious will eventually accept it as true.
- .Begin to receive
- Feel good. It is a feeling universe so need thoughts and feelings to manifest in your life
- Go test drive your dream car, view your dream house. Start getting good feelings and associating them to the things you want.
- When you feel joyous, this is an intuitive nudge from the universe so act on it.
- Whether you think it is a big or small wish, it makes no difference to the universe so wish big.
So start to change your thoughts, expectations and feelings.
Begin with making a daily list of things you are grateful for. You will then attract more of what you want.
Whatever you visualise, you materialize. Start dwelling on the end result that you want. For example close your eyes and focus on the back of your hands, see the hairs, feel the skin. Now imagine your hands are on the steering wheel of your favorite car , hear the engine, feel the speed . Imagine feeling happy, joyous and exhilarated.
Make sure you are persistent. Many people try and give up just before they reach success. As soon as you say "it doesn't work " then the universe will say "your wish is my command" so be persistent.
Don't worry about how it will happen - the universe knows the shortest quickest way.
So decide what you want , believe you can have it, deserve it and it is possible for you. Close your eyes, visualise having what you want and feel feelings of happiness and gratitude. Then release it into the universe and believe the universe will manifest it for you.
WEALTH
Declare what you want from the catalogue of the universe.
Make sure you think about what you want , not what you don't want. If you are thinking about getting out of debt, you are still thinking of being in debt and that is what you will get .
Focus on Abundance, not scarcity.
Visualise cheques coming in the mail. Visualise that money comes frequently and easily to you.
HAPPINESS
Go for inner things, inner joy then the outer things appear.
Think about things that make you feel happy and focus on these.
RELATIONSHIPS
Do you treat yourself the way you want to be treated? Make sure you treat yourself with love as you need to respect yourself before you can be in a relationship with someone else.
Love yourself ! This is not conceit but just love your amazing body and your wonderful self.
If you find yourself arguing in a relationship, get a piece of paper and write everything you appreciate about them,. Write a list daily.
HEALTH
Dis-ease means your body is not at ease. Diseases and all stress are feedback from your body that you are not balanced.
Many people have healed themselves by continuously saying "thank you for my healing" and putting themselves in a joyous state (e.g. by watching comedies and avoiding stress).
Albert Schweitzer said all healing is self healing. Your immune system heals your body.
Disease cant live in body in a healthy emotional state.
Anything we focus on we create, if we are angry - we are focusing on the anger which brings more anger.
Jung said "What you resist, persists ". Don’t be anti, be pro. Focus on what you want , not what you don’t want . .Mother Theresa understood this. She said she would never attend an anti war demo. but she would gladly come to a peace movement.
ENERGY
Energy flows where attention goes. We are all energy. Einstein's famous equation E=mc(squared) shows that energy and matter are interchangeable.
You are an energy field operating in the larger energy field of the universe. Everything is connected. You are an infinite field of unfolding psssibilites.
What are you going to do nw= when you focus on what your want the things you don’t want fall away. You are the author , the pen is your hand and the outcome is whatever you choose
Whenever you say I cant do that or she wont let me or he wont let me then every single I'm not is a creation. We are unlimited beings - we have no ceiling so don't limit yourself.
Your purpose is what you say it is. Your mission is what you say it is.
You have a future of unbounded potential, unbounded possibilities. You deserve to be happy,. You were born to add something of value to this world so be best you can be .
Every single thing that you’ve been though ,that you’ve come through has prepared you for this moment. You are the creator of your destiny. Imagine what you can do from this day forth with what you now know,. Will you seize the moment? No one else can sing your song, or dance your dance or write your story. It begins now. I believe you are great. There is something magnificent about you. No matter how old or young you think you are. You now have the power that will take over your life, direct and sustain you. That is what I know for sure.
When the voice and vision inside is more profound and louder then opinions outside you’ve mastered your life
Life should be abundant--believe it , see it, act from it and it will show up for you
What you think and feel and belief and thank about , you bring about. That is the secret.
Become the deliberate creator of your life. Life can be wonderful and should be and it will be when you follow the secret.
Saturday, April 4, 2020
The surprising science of happiness | Dan Gilbert
Friday, April 3, 2020
Culture From Home Ideas In Time of Coronavirus Isolation
If you are becoming fed up of being in isolation, there is a lot of culture waiting for you at your fingertips! Many theatres, museums, and dance companies are putting free online performances. Here is a selection of them.
Enjoy!
Enjoy!
National Theatre:
- As part of the BBC’s plans to keep bringing arts to audiences, you will be able to watch the following six RSC productions over the next few weeks. Exact details of the times and dates are yet to be released, but will be updated here.
- https://www.nationaltheatre.org.uk/nt-at-home
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XzqcRwWVv8k
Virtual Museums
- Fancy a bit of virtual sightseeing with Google?The tech giant has teamed up with 1,200 museums and sightseeing spots across the globe to bring you virtual tours of world-famous exhibitions.It means you can enjoy a glass of wine while exploring masterpieces such as the Eiffel Tower.Enjoy it while it lasts – it’s free!
- You’ll find the full list at https://artsandculture.google.com/
Royal Shakespeare Company
- As part of the BBC’s plans to keep bringing arts to audiences, you will be able to watch the following six RSC productions over the next few weeks. Exact details of the times and dates are yet to be released, but will be updated here. https://www.rsc.org.uk/news/bbc-culture-in-quarantine
- These include Macbeth , Hamlet ,Romeo and Juliet ,Much Ado About Nothing ,Othello and The Merchant of Venice
Shakespeare Globe
- https://www.shakespearesglobe.com/discover/blogs-and-features/2020/03/30/joy-and-wonder-in-a-time-of-isolation/
- Join us for Shakespeare filled movie nights, as from Monday 6 April, we’ll be releasing six free Globe Player films, one on rotation every two weeks, including: Hamlet (2018), Romeo and Juliet (2009), A Midsummer Night’s Dream (2013) and The Two Noble Kinsmen (2018), plus two previously unreleased titles The Winter’s Tale (2018) and The Merry Wives of Windsor (2019).
- They are also showing 34 productions from their 2012 Globe to Globe Festival
- They are also showing all 37 films from their complete walk series.
Royal Opera House
- https://www.roh.org.uk/news/the-royal-opera-house-launches-a-programme-of-free-online-content-for-the-culturally-curious-at-home
- We're offering a schedule of free broadcasts and live content that audiences can access for free anywhere, anytime.
Sadler Wells
- https://www.facebook.com/SadlersWells/
- Sadler's Wells proudly presents a full programme of feature-length dance performances and workshops, available to stream for free on Facebook. The aim is to keep theatre fans entertained whilst in quarantine around the world and stay connected through dance.
- Sadler’s Wells will be screening archive performances, special one-offs created just for screen and dance workshops aimed at a variety of ages from a family workout for ages two-to six, to classes for the over sixties.
Bolshoi
- For the first time in its history, the Bolshoi Theatre of Moscow has announced that it will broadcast several classical opera and ballet performances (known as the "Golden Series") live on the theatre's Youtube channel for free viewing
- The first night (today) will be broadcast live on the classic ballet "Swan Lake", the film will be reserved for 24 hours for a global audience to enjoy.
- Moscow Grand Theatre Youtube Channel: http://www.youtube.com/bolshoi
- Program Schedule
- 27.03 - Swan Lake
- 28.03 - The Sleeping Beauty
- 01.04 - The Tsar's Bride
- 04.04 - Marco Spada
- 07.04 - Boris Godunov
- 10.04 - The Nutcracker
Thursday, April 2, 2020
Wednesday, April 1, 2020
How To Be Successful In Life - The Underlying Principles of Success
Everyone wants to achieve the highest level of success. However, reaching that desirable level of success is not as easy as most of us perceive. To be successful, you have to sacrifice and forego majority of life's pleasures. Below is a list of seven guaranteed ways to be successful in life.
1. Do what you love
Unfortunately, most of us end up settling for jobs or careers that do not offer maximum satisfaction. Put simply, it is important to understand your passion and pursue it with all your energy and resources. The greatest regret held by a majority of the elderly is settling for what they did not love. To avoid having regrets on most of your early life decisions, be sure to pursue your passion. Doing what you love will ensure you remain passionate and highly motivated in your day to day activities regardless of the income. Be sure to discover your true purpose and work hard to achieve your goals.
2. Identify with a successful individual
As you look to achieve your dreams and initially set goals, ensure you remember that success has no secret recipe. It is advisable to identify with a successful person in your field of interest, and do whatever your mentor does to achieve his or her level of success. Once you have a role model or a mentor you associate with, it becomes easier to emulate the positive traits while learning from your mentor`s mistakes. Pick up the positive habits and ensure you avoid the mistakes made by your role model. By emulating a successful person, you increase your chances of succeeding exponentially.
3. Anticipate failure of disappointment
Good things never come easy, and if they do, then they probably won't last. Do not anticipate a smooth sailing in your journey to success. Instead, be ready to pick yourself up whenever you experience failure or disappointment. After all, successful people are characterized by their ability to remain hopeful even in their greatest disappointments. Therefore, regardless of how many times you fail, ensure you remain optimistic and confident in your ability to succeed.
4. Practice makes perfect
No one can succeed without commitment and adequate practice. To achieve the highest level of success in your respective field, it is necessary to take your time to practice until your skills become flawless. Contrary to popular belief, success is attained by maintaining a high level of consistency. Thus, to enjoy success, you must be willing to put time into strengthening your skills through constant practice.
5. Plan
Unfortunately, most of us assume that success happens overnight. However, success more often than not occurs as a result of adequate planning and organization. To achieve your set goals and targets, it is crucial to have a plan that will act as a guide. Successful people know what to do and when to do things; they just don't go about doing everything simultaneously. As a result, be sure to take your time and adequately plan for all your milestones. Set a schedule and observe it to the latter. Once you have a plan in place, it will be possible to measure your progress and consequently ensure that everything goes according to plan.
6. Be true to yourself
As you embark on your journey to success, it is necessary to understand that the biggest obstacle to success is yourself. Procrastination never helps; in fact, all it does is rob you off the time that you would otherwise utilize to achieve your goals. Therefore, ensure you are hard on yourself. That is, avoid procrastinating or letting yourself off the hook whenever you lack the motivation to do an important activity. Without self-discipline, it is impossible to achieve your set goals.
7. Enjoy the journey
Always keep in mind that everyone has an independent journey and purpose. Avoid comparing yourself to others as aimless comparisons can derail your development. Be patient and ensure you reward yourself every time you achieve your goals or initially set milestones. Indeed, it is only through self-love and appreciation that you can achieve the highest level of success. As such, give yourself treats and rewards that match your achievements. Remember, if you do not appreciate your achievements, no matter how small, then no one else will.
Author:Leon_Edward
Article Source: https://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Be-Successful-In-Life---The-Underlying-Principles-of-Success&id=10089672
1. Do what you love
Unfortunately, most of us end up settling for jobs or careers that do not offer maximum satisfaction. Put simply, it is important to understand your passion and pursue it with all your energy and resources. The greatest regret held by a majority of the elderly is settling for what they did not love. To avoid having regrets on most of your early life decisions, be sure to pursue your passion. Doing what you love will ensure you remain passionate and highly motivated in your day to day activities regardless of the income. Be sure to discover your true purpose and work hard to achieve your goals.
2. Identify with a successful individual
As you look to achieve your dreams and initially set goals, ensure you remember that success has no secret recipe. It is advisable to identify with a successful person in your field of interest, and do whatever your mentor does to achieve his or her level of success. Once you have a role model or a mentor you associate with, it becomes easier to emulate the positive traits while learning from your mentor`s mistakes. Pick up the positive habits and ensure you avoid the mistakes made by your role model. By emulating a successful person, you increase your chances of succeeding exponentially.
3. Anticipate failure of disappointment
Good things never come easy, and if they do, then they probably won't last. Do not anticipate a smooth sailing in your journey to success. Instead, be ready to pick yourself up whenever you experience failure or disappointment. After all, successful people are characterized by their ability to remain hopeful even in their greatest disappointments. Therefore, regardless of how many times you fail, ensure you remain optimistic and confident in your ability to succeed.
4. Practice makes perfect
No one can succeed without commitment and adequate practice. To achieve the highest level of success in your respective field, it is necessary to take your time to practice until your skills become flawless. Contrary to popular belief, success is attained by maintaining a high level of consistency. Thus, to enjoy success, you must be willing to put time into strengthening your skills through constant practice.
5. Plan
Unfortunately, most of us assume that success happens overnight. However, success more often than not occurs as a result of adequate planning and organization. To achieve your set goals and targets, it is crucial to have a plan that will act as a guide. Successful people know what to do and when to do things; they just don't go about doing everything simultaneously. As a result, be sure to take your time and adequately plan for all your milestones. Set a schedule and observe it to the latter. Once you have a plan in place, it will be possible to measure your progress and consequently ensure that everything goes according to plan.
6. Be true to yourself
As you embark on your journey to success, it is necessary to understand that the biggest obstacle to success is yourself. Procrastination never helps; in fact, all it does is rob you off the time that you would otherwise utilize to achieve your goals. Therefore, ensure you are hard on yourself. That is, avoid procrastinating or letting yourself off the hook whenever you lack the motivation to do an important activity. Without self-discipline, it is impossible to achieve your set goals.
7. Enjoy the journey
Always keep in mind that everyone has an independent journey and purpose. Avoid comparing yourself to others as aimless comparisons can derail your development. Be patient and ensure you reward yourself every time you achieve your goals or initially set milestones. Indeed, it is only through self-love and appreciation that you can achieve the highest level of success. As such, give yourself treats and rewards that match your achievements. Remember, if you do not appreciate your achievements, no matter how small, then no one else will.
Author:Leon_Edward
Article Source: https://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Be-Successful-In-Life---The-Underlying-Principles-of-Success&id=10089672
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